FAQs
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Do I have to reply to the letter I got?
That is up to you, but it is not expected of you.
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What if I don't know what to write?
I give out three prompts. Or you could always sign up for Journal Prompts with creativepassport.org. Better yet come up with your own lovely stories to share - we all have them, it is just about writing them down.
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What if I don't get a letter?
Let me know.
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"This is just for you young girls."
Firstly, you know that isn't a question. Secondly, there is no age limit to your ability to care for your sisters. Thirdly, you old bags whine too much about nobody listening to your stories, and here are the girls waiting to hear them, why waste that opportunity? I love my friends to be of all ages and consequently there are women of all ages in this community.
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When did the idea start?
It began in Heather's brain 2017, and took form after the encouragement of some special ladies, Galentines 2018.
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Is this just a one off event?
Hopefully as feedback begins to roll in we'll see if there is enough interest in another event.
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Why is it run on an event basis?
Because this is just meant to be a meet and greet of like-minded women looking to talk about their self-care, it isn't meant to be your cure to all of life's problems. If this became more regular the fear is that it would become chore-like and the energy would die down. We especially target those events that many of us may need help getting through (e.g. Valentine's, Christmas, birthdays, even St Patrick's)
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How much is it going to cost me?
The price of postage, and perhaps a solid evening. That's all it takes.
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"I am not very creative."
The thing about creativity is that it is about seeing how far you might go. Try something new, copy something off the internet (we all do!). What ever you can do, and then make the rest up in glue.
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"I am actually in a relationship."
The purpose of the community is to function as the wives/mothers club when you aren't allowed in the club. So yes, we do target the single ladies who lack love and support in their everyday, but if you saw the numbers you'd see approximately five divorcees, four dating, three happily married, two struggling singles, and a single mum (pun intended). We've tried to create a community of lovely rejects, and welcome all. No shame, ladies.
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"I missed the deadline date!"
That's okay, get in touch with me as soon as you can and we will see what we can do. The sooner the better, just communicate!
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Can I change who I got?
Just communicate.
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Can I ask for someone in particular?
Just communicate.
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Will I get someone I have already gotten/know?
Possibly. If that is an issue, let me know.
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Can I organize a Fe-mail event?
Sure! Get in touch and we can discuss.
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Are boys allowed?
Because we are still getting to know the patterns, we haven't invited the boys yet. But the plan is to eventually. They could really really do with some love from a wise lady too.
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Can I invite my friends?
Of course! Please do.
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Always be sure to communicate. The sooner I know your questions and concerns, the sooner I can do something about it. This whole project is about being effective communicators, so don't be shy, just communicate!